Andy, I'm going to assume you are either very young, very sheltered or for some charitable reason that I can't think of, you just don't know any better.

When you have born three children in three year's time as the writer describes, you can come back and explain to all of the woman on Medium how you did it.

I'm sure I'm not alone when I say I would love your tips on how to stop the milk from leaking from your breasts, what you did in the six to eight weeks after the birth to deal with the bleeding and attendant mess, and if you can let me know how you managed the post-delivery sitz baths with two toddlers and an infant, I, and every other woman on the planet who has given birth, would LOVE your insights and recommendations.

Bottom line. He bitched about her throughout the post. If she is the abject failure he says she is, he knew that after the first child was born and could have stopped having sex with her to punish her for not cleaning.